please respect the person before asking that particular person to respect you.
please understand people's feeling before you do something.
you must be thinking that trusting a stranger is better than trusting your family.
you're wrong. you'll regret soon. your family is trying to help you but you refused. and, in fact, you are hating your family.
did you ever think of what other people will feel??
anyway, it's up to you whatever you wanna do. no one can ever comment on anything.
THE CHOICE IS YOURS.